Michael Arnold Mages
People can have a tough time talking with others about certain topics. Some topics can threaten the social identity of participants (Stone, Patton, Heen 2010), which can limit the potential for effective, replete relationships between people (Flores 2012). In the context of college residence life, some students assume formalized leadership roles within the student community, as resident assistants or orientation counselors. Beyond the planned-for duties of conducting the orientation activities, these students become de facto counselors, and play a subtle but informal role throughout the year helping students to adjust to academic and residence life in college. These students, however, are not always prepared to serve to mediate those difficult conversations, or more fully consider the perspective that another student’s intersectional social identity might lend to a particular situation.
To help these students begin to develop strategies for difficult conversations, things can serve in a number of ways: they can offer a frame to help people visualize challenging concepts, can provide an avatar upon which a person can project difficult subject matter, can offer prompts to help a person to develop responses. In short, things can act as scaffolding (Sanders, William 2001) extend the capacity of people to engage with difficult subject matter.
This presentation will share work done in collaboration with the Carnegie Mellon University Office of Residential Education and Center for Student Diversity and Inclusion where students used diagramming and conversation to explore aspects of social identity, and a card game/training program that was developed through an iterative process with design students. This presentation will discuss these artifacts, and propose a model describing a range of approaches by which things might moderate difficult conversation that may be useful for further work in this area.
Flores, F. (2012). Conversations for Action and Collected Essays. (M. F. Letelier, Ed.) (1st ed.). North Charleston, South Carolina: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform.
Sanders, E. B., & William, C. T. (2001). Harnessing People’s Creativity : Ideation and Expression through Visual Communication. In J. Langford & D. McDonagh-Philp (Eds.), Focus Groups: Supporting Effective Product Development. Taylor and Francis.
Stone, D., Patton, B., & Heen, S. (2010). Difficult conversations: how to discuss what matters most ; [updated with answers to the 10 most frequently asked questions about difficult conversations] (2. ed., 10). New York: Penguin Books.